A big part of the reason people aren’t more present is it isn’t inherently exciting. Call it an anti-intoxicant, independent of high/low measurements and accompanying pleasure/pain.
No belts, no comparisons, and no identity beyond the sweet serenity of plan, friend, and training space:
(We’ve got to hold on to what we’ve got, ’cause it doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not, we’ve got each other and that’s a lot for love – we’ll give it a shot!):